Personality development- “How common we come across this term” – this is from our teachers, the self help books. The significance of this term signals towards its importance in the modern life. Is it something about the way you speak or the way you look? Is it how you connect with people? Well the answer is that it is none of these? One needs to be smart and quick witted all the time. It is just about how much time you will put, but one has a lot to do which what one achieves.

Knowing yourself

Obviously when you are obviously something, you need to know about it first. The same goes along with your personality. One needs to start with a good look at themselves by analyzing their strengths along with weakness. Do not shy away from accepting flaws and additional responsibilities.

Be positive

Your thoughts and actions both need to be positive in order to have an attractive personality. The way one thinks has an effect on how we act. If you have positive thoughts inside you, one will have confidence and it will enhance their personality. One is likely to encounter situations and circumstances in life which can bring about highs and lows.

Clothes also have a fair share as far as your personality is concerned. In fact, one should have the perfect attire modeled as per the seasons. Say for example during the month of December, when there is chill all over the place, winter thermal wear would not be a bad idea at all. It is the most important garment in layering clothes, and with the help of it, one can send out a strong fashion statement along with providing warmth to body.

Have an opinion

Having an opinion and be able to put it confidently, but it is bound to make your conversations interesting and it makes you influential and well informed around the people. Do not be afraid to voice your opinion even if they happen to be in conflict with other people. It will make you feel important too.

Read regularly and develop new interests

A man with less interests has very little to talk about. But if you are well informed and cultivate a number of interest’s people are more likely to like you. When you meet people, you do not need to think on what you have to say and the topics are in front of you.

Be a good listener

Being a good listener may seem a nonexistent idea, but definitely it has a bearing on your personality. When someone talks to you listen it with care and give the person all the importance along with respect which they deserve. It will go a long way in knowing better about people and attending them in a better way